So true. Some of the most challenging things I have done, have been shifts in attitude and philosophy - also in privately coming to terms with what is. All done alone, privately, invisible to other eyes.
Interesting concept. I'm not a very daring person. Always thought I needed to apologize for that, but the truth is that I don't have a lot of confidence to go out and blaze new trails. I was never imbued with that kind of mindset growing up and have always been timid about going too far out on a limb on the chance that I'd prove everyone right and fail. Sad, but true.
But you're saying there's still hope for me. Right?
@Alix: Me thinks you judge yourself too harshly! Your blog is daring and it does blaze new trails. Your exhuberance is unmatched, and you have nothing to prove. You are simply adorable and daring just as you are, my dear.
@Finding Pam: Hmmm...sounds like you're describing my mother. Her beautiful spirit managed to overcome extreme shyness, poverty, homelessness, child and domestic abuse. She dared to take that first step you describe, and her resilience and vitality was like a magnet to people. Thank you for your comment.
@J: Well, people certainly try, but I don't think it can be sustained. I've found that I've been sorting myself out for a very long time. Comes in fits and starts, and the process itself is rewarding. I'd love to hear more about your thoughts on this. Have you posted on it?
Great image and thought. Made me think of the Bronte sisters, who lived sheltered lives, and yet wrote books that were daring for their time. Makes me think of my mom and grandmother, too. Women of their generation lived behind the scenes and yet often were daring in their own individual ways. And for me, true daring lies in the few original thoughts I might think, write, or pass on.
Wonderful! Yes! In fact, I have found that most of my outward adventures had to do with running away from things, but most of my inward adventures have to do with running towards what I want and need.
@Stacey: Welcome! So glad to have discovered your fascinating blog -- and to know you'll be visiting here. Thank you for your lovely comment about my blog. Looking forward to getting better acquainted!
@Melissa: Wow! I'd sure love to quote you sometime on that comment. I think I'm due an inner adventure, now that you mention it! Thank you for leaving this fascinating comment, Melissa!
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But you're saying there's still hope for me. Right?
Sandi
Lovely quote and photo
You're so sweet about my avatar! Doing a blog is daring; putting one's thoughts 'out there' and seeing what comes back.
Makes me think of my mom and grandmother, too. Women of their generation lived behind the scenes and yet often were daring in their own individual ways.
And for me, true daring lies in the few original thoughts I might think, write, or pass on.
Hi. So nice of you to visit my blog. Your comment made me laugh, too funny!
I love your blog and look forward to following along.
much love
xoxo
All good.
Thank you, Kathleen!